alrighty, time for some talking. i wish i knew how to handle situations better. because right now, im in a tough situation. im in a relationship with somebody, but now as i come to realize, we have absolutely nothing in common, and we are always disagreeing about something. if i dare to suggest anything besides watching a movie or fooling around, then he wants nothing to do with it. what i mean is, when im in a relationship, i put alot of myself into it. i devote alot of my own personal time to this person, because i care. but if the person i am dating doesnt care enough to listen to some of my ideas or to maybe do something that they dont necessarily want to do to make me happy, then i cant take it. now i dont mean doing something that they absolutely hate just to make me happy, but i mean, just cuz you dont WANT to do something, doesnt mean that your significant other doesnt either. you have to make sacrifices sometimes in relationships. when it comes down to it, a relationship is about 2 people. and both of those peoples personal opinions come into play. both of their wants and needs. not just the one persons. you have to be able to compromise and work things out amongst eachother. otherwise, your not in a relationship. your 2 completely seperate people who talk to each other, or should i say argue with each other all the time. am i really asking too much from a relationship? to be honest, i just want to be treated like a girlfriend. not just that person that your standing next to, or just that person on the phone. i just want to be happy. thats all. am i being to harsh? am i asking too much? i dont know. but i do know how a person should be treated. and i dont feel that i am being treated the way i should be. well. im done for now. ill write later. comment if you feel you have any advise. thanks- Katy